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NVC – Meaningful Apology
Non-violent communication as propounded by Marshal Rosenberg offers tools to express oneself with honesty and integrity. The essence of...
786sharanya
Feb 9, 20242 min read


NVC – An Enriching THANK YOU
Some interesting ways of NVC expression😊An enriching way of appreciating or expressing our gratitude to the other. Appreciation and...
786sharanya
Feb 5, 20242 min read


Affirmations – Do they work?
My master’s often repeats this phrase, “Fake it till you make it” and this phrase used to confound me as I was very bad at faking. How do...
786sharanya
Feb 1, 20242 min read


Power Over Power with
During most of my NVC sessions, I kept pondering and ruminating over what I do consciously, and what escapes me sub consciously because...
786sharanya
Jan 29, 20243 min read


Competence Grid
"Empathy is a respectful understanding of what others are experiencing. Instead of offering empathy, we often have a strong urge to give...
786sharanya
Jan 26, 20242 min read


NVC Framework
NVC is a language for life. The few posts explaining the tools do not do justice to what NVC can truly offer. It is life a changing...
786sharanya
Jan 22, 20242 min read


NVC- Requests or Demands
The last crucial point in this fourth pillar of NVC, request is understanding the difference between requests and demands. Our...
786sharanya
Jan 19, 20242 min read


NVC – Kinds of Requests
The other kind of request is connection request. The focus is on keeping the connection and door for further communication open. We may...
786sharanya
Jan 15, 20242 min read


NVC- Kinds of Requests
Continuing with the fourth tool, Requests, I have mentioned the cardinal rules to be aware of when making a request; request is in the...
786sharanya
Jan 12, 20242 min read


NVC – Requests
Requests is the last tool of NVC. We have traversed a long way starting with observation without judgement, identifying the feelings and...
786sharanya
Jan 8, 20242 min read


NVC – Needs vs Strategies
It is posited that "Everything we do is in service of our needs." Needs are what is alive in us, what our entire being is trying to meet,...
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Jan 5, 20242 min read


I have needs, and I am not needy
Feelings are the first hint we have about ourselves, and the emotions we are experiencing. The physical expression gives us direction and...
786sharanya
Jan 1, 20242 min read


Before NVC- Self Empathy
The first few sessions into my NVC workshop, I felt an increasing sense of panic. A desolate feeling crept into me when I heard the...
786sharanya
Dec 15, 20232 min read


Non feeling - Life alienating Language
Continuing with the previous post, about the second tool of NVC, Feelings. Trying to keep our focus on the feelings and not the triggers...
786sharanya
Dec 11, 20232 min read


NVC - Feelings
I shared a little about the first tool of Marshal Rosenberg’s Non-violent communication, Observation. Feelings is the second pillar,...
786sharanya
Dec 8, 20232 min read


NVC - Observation vs Evaluation
This is a continuation of the previous post titled, NVC-Observation. I thought it may be more useful if I talk a little about what is not...
786sharanya
Dec 4, 20232 min read


NVC- First Tool- Observation
NVC has four pillars helping us communicate heartfully, staying in touch with our feelings and needs and communicating in a way that...
786sharanya
Dec 1, 20232 min read


Communicate Heartfully - Introduction
"Nonviolent Communication is based on the principle of Ahimsa — the natural state of compassion when no violence is present in the...
786sharanya
Nov 27, 20232 min read


Light Within
For many years, Deepawali remained an outwardly focused favorite festival for me. We create a mini-God house in honor of Lord Rama, and a...
786sharanya
Nov 17, 20232 min read


Deepawali - Festival of Lights
This is a festive season for Hindus across the globe. Everywhere in the world, we celebrate this festival with enthusiasm and fervor. ...
786sharanya
Nov 13, 20232 min read
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