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NVC- Non-Communication
To give a brief introduction about Nonviolent communication; it is centered around expressing oneself in a way that takes us one step...
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Feb 12, 20242 min read


NVC – Meaningful Apology
Non-violent communication as propounded by Marshal Rosenberg offers tools to express oneself with honesty and integrity. The essence of...
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Feb 9, 20242 min read


NVC – An Enriching THANK YOU
Some interesting ways of NVC expression😊An enriching way of appreciating or expressing our gratitude to the other. Appreciation and...
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Feb 5, 20242 min read


Affirmations – Do they work?
My master’s often repeats this phrase, “Fake it till you make it” and this phrase used to confound me as I was very bad at faking. How do...
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Feb 1, 20242 min read


Power Over Power with
During most of my NVC sessions, I kept pondering and ruminating over what I do consciously, and what escapes me sub consciously because...
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Jan 29, 20243 min read


Competence Grid
"Empathy is a respectful understanding of what others are experiencing. Instead of offering empathy, we often have a strong urge to give...
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Jan 26, 20242 min read


NVC Framework
NVC is a language for life. The few posts explaining the tools do not do justice to what NVC can truly offer. It is life a changing...
786sharanya
Jan 22, 20242 min read


NVC- Requests or Demands
The last crucial point in this fourth pillar of NVC, request is understanding the difference between requests and demands. Our...
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Jan 19, 20242 min read


NVC – Kinds of Requests
The other kind of request is connection request. The focus is on keeping the connection and door for further communication open. We may...
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Jan 15, 20242 min read


NVC- Kinds of Requests
Continuing with the fourth tool, Requests, I have mentioned the cardinal rules to be aware of when making a request; request is in the...
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Jan 12, 20242 min read


NVC – Requests
Requests is the last tool of NVC. We have traversed a long way starting with observation without judgement, identifying the feelings and...
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Jan 8, 20242 min read


NVC – Needs vs Strategies
It is posited that "Everything we do is in service of our needs." Needs are what is alive in us, what our entire being is trying to meet,...
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Jan 5, 20242 min read


I have needs, and I am not needy
Feelings are the first hint we have about ourselves, and the emotions we are experiencing. The physical expression gives us direction and...
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Jan 1, 20242 min read


Needs Are Universal
This post is copied from the NVC weekly, and explains Needs beautifully, and differently: All of us, everyone in the world, have the same...
786sharanya
Dec 29, 20232 min read


Needs
We are on to the third tool of NVC, Needs. As a quick re-cap, Marshal Rosenberg generously offered the world a new way of...
786sharanya
Dec 25, 20232 min read


Life alienating language - The four Ds’
When the mind starts to play games, the voice of the heart, or of reason is drowned in the chaos of the mind. The ice-berg exercise...
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Dec 22, 20232 min read


Helping Self-Empathy - Ice-Berg Exercise
Continuing with my previous post on Self-Empathy, here is an exercise enabling a deep dive into the self and an understanding of our...
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Dec 18, 20232 min read


Before NVC- Self Empathy
The first few sessions into my NVC workshop, I felt an increasing sense of panic. A desolate feeling crept into me when I heard the...
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Dec 15, 20232 min read


Non feeling - Life alienating Language
Continuing with the previous post, about the second tool of NVC, Feelings. Trying to keep our focus on the feelings and not the triggers...
786sharanya
Dec 11, 20232 min read


NVC - Feelings
I shared a little about the first tool of Marshal Rosenberg’s Non-violent communication, Observation. Feelings is the second pillar,...
786sharanya
Dec 8, 20232 min read
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