What matters in Life - Let the heart win😊!

So, how can we make this conscious decision in our favor, ‘To love and be happy’?

Dr. Adizes says, Let go of anger. Because “anger and love cannot share the same space. And if the mind and heart are in a conflict you can’t resolve, let the heart win.”

We will have many instances where our expectations are not met, and we feel frustrated, which will result in anger. Anger is an emotion which forces the mind to over think. Anger always has thoughts fueling underneath. There are always reasons people cite as the source of their anger. When a person truly stops thinking and reasoning, and just loves unconditionally, what happens to anger? It dissolves.

It is easier said than done! How to let the thinking stop and help anger dissolve? When thoughts are racing and fighting with one another to rationalize and find a logical justification to one’s anger, the mind doesn’t give room to feel love, and love shrivels.

So, how can we allow the heart to win, help anger dissolve so that love can blossom? ‘In order to find love, it’s necessary to stop the daily grind.’

I recall this quote, ‘The devil is in the hustle.’ When the mind body is constantly on the move, rushing from one thought and action to the other, where is the time to find love, know love, feel love?

To let the heart win, learn to slow down, give yourself some time, and make time for the other. There are many expressions of love, something which I have already written about in a previous post. Express your love in the language that most appeals to you and…

Dr. Adizes adds something new, “Love should not necessarily be expressed in a way you want to be loved, but in the way the beloved wants to be loved.”

Unfortunately, in this day of instant gratification, waiting has lost its charm. Patience is lost virtue today. To let the heart talk, patience and the willingness to wait are crucial.